FAVORITE SEX TOYS
To Enhance Your Love and Sexual Pleasure
Welcome to this page full of great information about sex toys.
Sex toys are a great way to introduce variety and fun into your sex play. There are oodles available on the market and so much depends upon your personal preferences. This is not an exhaustive list but enough to get you started in the right direction.
When buying a sex toy, consider whether you need it to come in discreet packaging and whether or not you want your order to be private. (e.g. your family shares an Amazon account). My preferred vendors are local shops, Lelo, Hot Cherry, Good Vibrations, Liberator, Zumio, We-Vibe, Womanizer, Adam and Eve and Amazon. If you are looking for lingerie, role play and BDSM outfits, check out Hot Cherry's or Good Vibration's collection.
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✓ Dildos and Strap-Ons
✓ Vibrators
✓ Clitoral Stimulators
✓ Anal Toys
✓ Toys for Men
✓ Toys for Couples
✓ Toys for Erectile Issues
✓ Miscellaneous
Please note that some of the items are affiliate links, which means that I'll receive a small commission if you choose to buy it through the links on this page. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.There is no additional cost to you and no obligation to purchase through my site. I wanted to be upfront and let you know that!
Clitoral Stimulators
This is tough because there are so many wonderful options but this is my short list of favorites!
The Sona™ 2 Cruise
The SONA™ 2 clitoral stimulator uses SenSonic™ technology to stimulate the clitoris. It's hands down, one of the most popular items at Lelo and has consistently been the top rated sex toy on Amazon and by Cosmopolitan. It helps you achieve a quick, yet powerful orgasm with direct contact to your clitoris.
Click to buy from LELO
The Sila ™
This is a new Love Filled Life favorite! Redefine the meaning of pleasure with SILA™, a clitoral vibrator created for self-love exploration. Discover a new way of foreplay and tease yourself to reach climax slowly. As gentle waves surge from the tip of your clitoris, reach the intense orgasm of your dreams, and soar to new heights of ecstasy. SILA™ builds your sexual experience with its softer, deeper, and overall bigger mouth that will give you complete satisfaction from top to bottom.
The LELO DOT™
LELO DOT™ is an innovative clitoral vibrator optimized for multiple orgasms, sending novel sensations across the clitoris and externally on other erogenous areas, unlike traditional vibrators that may numb the area around the clitoris.
Click to buy from LELO
The ZUMIO Series™
Zumio™ clitoral stimulators are innovative clitoral vibrators designed for solo play or for ease of reaching the clitoris during penetration, to help you to orgasm during penetration.
Click to buy from ZUMIO
Vibrators
This is tough because there are so many wonderful options!
Click to explore options from LELO, GOOD VIBES, ADAM & EVE, WE-VIBE,or HOT CHERRY
The Lelo Gigi™ 2
GIGI™ 2 is a G-spot vibrator that takes orgasms to a whole new level. Its curved and flattened tip accurately targets your sweet spot.
The Smart Wand™ 2
The Smart Wand™ 2 is a wand vibrator that can be used on both of your bodies. This compact massager offers ten different massage patterns for any erogenous zone you care to explore, including the clitoral area. It comes in medium size, making it convenient to use on the go.
INA Wave™ 2
INA Wave™ 2 rabbit vibe offers a revolutionary exploration of your body, with more power and a wider range of intensities.
The Magic Wand (Rechargable)
A cordless version of the original Hitachi Magic Wand which was made famous by a sex therapist named Betty Dodson when she used it in workshops as a vibrator. It became the Cadillac of vibrators for years and is still widely used today. This is called a wand vibrator.
Click to buy from AMAZON or buy this or others from HOT CHERRY
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
A cordless rabbit vibrator that stimulates your clitoris and your g-spot.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
PlusOne Bullet Vibrator
An inexpensive and small vibrator that stimulates your clitoris.
Click to buy from AMAZON.
We-Vibe Tango X Bullet Vibrator
The Tango X has eight vibrating modes that the user controls via the simple two-button control panel on the top of the toy. Take it with you on your travels as it is small and discreet and looks like lipstick from afar.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Fin Finger Vibrator
The fin is a quiet, discreet vibrator that fits on your finger. It's made from medical grade, body safe silicone, and is fully waterproof, turning bath or shower time into the most pleasing personal time ever.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
LELO Lyla 2
The fin is a quiet, discreet, waterproof, body-safe silicone egg vibrator that can be used internally or externally. It includes a remote control to add spice to your partnered sex play.
Click to buy from LELO
Thrusting Vibrators
There are a variety of thrusting vibrators that can be used to simulate penetration. They include hand-held, hands-free, g-spot, realistic penis and rabbit options.
Learn more at HOT CHERRY
Toys for Couples
The Wartenburg Wheel
The Wartenburg wheel is a sensory toy to delight your partner.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY or AMAZON
We-Vibe SYNC 2
The We-Vibe Sync 2 is We-Vibe's best selling couple's toy. It simultaneously stimulates the clitoris, G-Spot and penis.
Click to buy from We-Vibe or HOT CHERRY.
Lovense Lush 3
The Lovense Lush 3 is a bluetooth controlled insertable egg vibrator One partner can wear the vibrator while the other controls it from the bluetooth app. Some couples use this in a private setting while others enjoy the naughtiness of wearing it under clothing in a public setting while their partner controls it from the app.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY.
We-Vibe Moxie +
The We-Vibe Moxie + is a bluetooth controlled panty vibrator. One partner wears the vibrator externally in their panties so it stimulates the clitoris while the other controls it from the bluetooth app. Many couples spice things up by wearing it under clothing in a public setting while the partner controls it from the app.
Click to buy from We-Vibe.
SPORTSSHEETS RESTRAINT SYSTEM
Click to buy from AMAZON.
RIDING CROP
Click to buy from AMAZON.
RIDING CROP and FLOGGER SET
Click to buy from AMAZON.
OSTRICH FEATHER TICKLER
This, like the Wartenburg wheel and the flogger can be used over your partner's body to give them new sensual experiences.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
SPORTSHEETS SAFFRON PING PONG PADDLE
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
SPORTSHEETS FUR-LINED LEATHER PADDLE
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Dildo's and Strap On's
Dildo's are either realistic or unrealistic, made of materials such as silicone, glass or metal and can be handheld or worn as strap on's with some type of harness for penetrative sex. There is a huge variety available on HOT CHERRY.
King Cock 6 Inch Realistic Dildo
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
- Suction cup
- Can use in a harness
- Multiple flesh shades
Avant D2 Purple Rain Dildo
- This is so fun! And sex should be fun!
- Buy from AMAZON
Pegging Dildo
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
Pegging Dildo Training Set
- This graduated set allows you to comfortably work your way up to a larger size.
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
The Njoy Pure G Spot Metal Wand
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
- Buy from AMAZON
- Stainless Steel
- Approx 8" from end to end
- Comes Packed in sleeved box with satin interior.
- Non-porous finish so it will last.
Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
- Can use warmed or cold
- Approx 7"
- Can be used vaginally or anally.
Icicles No 5 Sapphire Spiral Glass Dildo 7 Inch
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
- Can use warmed or cold
- Approx 7"
- Can be used vaginally or anally.
Crystal Glass Dildo
- Buy from AMAZON
- Can use warmed or cold
- Approx 8" from end to end
- Can be used vaginally or anally.
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness
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Buy from HOT CHERRY
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Climbing Style harness with O-ring
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Includes 7"dildo
Strap-On Harness Shorts
- Choose from a variety on HOT CHERRY
- Buy from AMAZON
SpareParts Tomboi Harness Briefs
- Buy on HOT CHERRY
Anal Toys
If you are a beginner at anal play, start small and work your way up. Always make sure you have good hygiene and wash your toys well. Use a generous amount of lube as anal tissue is sensitive. You may want to consider a starter set to get you used to the feeling of something inserted anally. See Toys for Men for prostate toys.
Akstore 3 Pcs Luxury Jewelry Design Fetish Anal Butt Plug(Pink)
A 3 pack of cute butt plugs to try different sizes.
Click to buy from AMAZON
4PCS Anal Plug Set Silicone Anal Butt Plug Adult Sex Toys for Women,Men and Beginners
Various graduated sizes of silicone butt plugs.
Click to buy buy from AMAZON
Pride Anal Dildo Plug
- 5.25 of insertable premium, medical grade (platinum-cured) silicone in Pride colors.
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
Zero Tolerance Wicked Twister Rechargeable Butt Plug
- Easy insertion, vibrating butt plug
- Buy from HOT CHERRY
Toys for Men
HUGO™ Prostate Massager
HUGO™ is a remote-controlled prostate massager with eight pleasure settings suitable for coupled or solo play.
Click to buy from LELO
LOVENSE EDGE 2 Prostate Massager
HUGO™ is a remote-controlled prostate massager with eight pleasure settings suitable for coupled or solo play.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux Masturbator with Remote
This masturbator can be used on a hard or soft penis.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Vush Sol Vibrating Stroker
The Sol is a vibrating penis stroker designed to provide enhanced stimulation to the penis. It hugs the penis shaft; the underside has soft ribbing to gently stimulate the penis. Plus, the flexible wings let you adjust the grip strength, the shaft size, and the sensations the Sol offers.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Pulse Pocket Stroker
The Pulse Pocket is a lightweight, vibrating penis stroker designed to provide enhanced stimulation to the penis glans, shaft or balls.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Cock Rings
There are a ton of penis rings or cock rings on the market, from simple stretchy silicone rings to those that adjust by cinching down. You can also buy some that vibrate.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY or AMAZON.
Battery Operated Penis Pump
Penis pumps help improve erections. B pumps are easier to use than ones you manually pump. Again, there are many on the market, so read the reviews.
Click to buy from AMAZON
TOR™ 2
TOR™ 2 is a sophisticated, high-end couples' ring that enhances the sensations for both partners during sex. It is fully waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower.
Click to buy from LELO.
Various Vibrating Cock Rings
There are oodles of vibrating cock rings at every price range. They are typically designed to add extra clitoral stimulation while giving you the snugness of a cock ring. The extra vibrations may also feel good on your penis.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY or AMAZON
Sex Furniture
Sex furniture is furniture or props created with the purpose of enhancing sexual and erotic activities. Its primary goal is to assist with positioning during sex, making it more comfortable and increasing pleasure and sensation. You can find a variety of options, ranging from small props like wedges and sex pillows to larger, full-scale pieces of furniture that may require a bit more space in your living area.
Sex furniture not only enhances comfort and pleasure in various sex positions but also caters to specific sexual activities.
The Dame Pillo Sex Pillow
Pillo is the sex pillow from Dame Products with a wedge shape that is ergonomic and comfortable. It helps you position yourself and your partner’s body better, get support in the positions that are hard to hold, and much more. It is filled with polyurethane foam that holds its shape well and provides soft yet firm support.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Liberator Fascinator Sex Blanket
This versatile option is discreet, waterproof, and machine washable and the cover is a soft micro velvet that feels luxurious against your naked skin. It also comes in a variety of sizes and colors.
Click to buy from LIBERATOR
Lyza Lounger II Black Label
This is an Elevated chaise with discreet restraints that is designed for Kama Sutra-inspired positions and weighted for enhanced support and leverage. It is antimicrobial, non-staining, and easy to clean.
Click to buy from LIBERATOR.
SPORTSSHEETS RESTRAINT SYSTEM
Click to buy from AMAZON.
Liberator BonBon Sex Toy Mount
High-density foam mount for vibrators and dildos good for individual and couples play
Click to buy from LIBERATOR
Whip Smart Pleasure Swing
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Easy Toys Over The Door Sex Swing
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Lovense Sex Machine
The Lovense is a powerful hands-free, thrusting sex machine.
Click to buy from HOT CHERRY
Miscellaneous - lubes, massage oils
Great sex often requires lubricant to keep things slippery enough for pleasure. This is important for women in midlife or later, especially if they are in or past menopause due to vaginal dryness.
Various Lubes
Lubes help with manual touch, reducing sex toy friction and making penetration easier and less painful, whether it's vaginal or anal penetration. Always use a water-based lube, NOT a silicone lube, on a silicone sex toy. If you are at all concerned about the lube's impact on your sex toy, do a small test spot overnight to make sure the lube doesn't degrade the silicone of your toy. Click on the images to read more about these lubes or visit Hot Cherry or Good Vibrations.
Moisturizing Lubricants
As women age, and especially as we become post-menopausal, our skin becomes drier and more fragile. It's important to moisturize your vulva region and vagina on a regular basis in order to keep it healthy and supple. Moisturizing lubricants are different from regular lubes and are recommended for those with drier or more fragile skin.
Massage Oils
There are a variety of massage oils to take a simple massage up several notches! Try warming oils or edible massage oils. Make sure you check to ensure they are safe near your vulva area or use them elsewhere on your body. Click the images to read more about each of these products.
